Feeling The Love as a Well Respected Melbourne Companion Worldwide
I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect when I decided to return as Rene Joile after such a long time away. Strangely, I was nervous, but excited all the same. There was so much I missed about being Rene, probably more than I had realised, although I wondered whether returning after so many years would still feel familiar.
Life moves on, people change. I changed. I found my way again and as soon as the first 'Rene, you are back' appeared in my messages, I felt so happy. Feeling like a very missed, and well respected companion in Melbourne, and worldwide, has been one of the loveliest surprises of coming back.
Lovely messages are arriving from gentlemen I haven't spoken to in years. Some messages are from beautiful gentlemen I have shared wonderful times with, some I had met only briefly, others remembered the conversations that never quite became a meeting.
There were familiar names I hadn’t expected to see again, conversations that picked up where we had left them, stirring fond memories of places, dinners and moments I hadn’t thought about for some time.
Many of these messages have genuinely made me smile from the inside out.
There is something rather beautiful about knowing that I have remained in somebody’s memory long after our lives moved in different directions. Even more flattering has been discovering that the attraction is still there.
To be remembered is lovely but what has touched me most, is the respect I have felt for the time shared. Thank you.
Returning as a Melbourne Companion Worldwide
As an independent Melbourne companion, I have always been selective about who I spend my time with. Returning hasn't changed that; if anything, I have become more conscious of how valuable time becomes as life gets busier.
I have no desire to fill every available space in my diary. I enjoy making time to enjoy conversations with someone interesting, and I genuinely anticipate the time we plan to share together.
There is something very attractive about a man who plans ahead.
I love receiving invitations that have had some thought put into them, whether it is dinner in Melbourne a few weeks from now, a weekend interstate or a few days together somewhere on the other side of the world. Planning ahead gives both of us something that last-minute arrangements rarely can: anticipation.
Rushed and last minute invites limit time to become familiar with each other, less time to flirt a little, or exchange ideas. Less time to look forward to the occasion.
For me, that is part of the pleasure.
I Feels as Though I Never Really Retired
One of the most unexpected parts of my return has been how quickly travel has found its way back into my life.
I have already received invitations interstate and internationally, and I must admit, I am so excited to be travelling again, and so soon!
Having spent many years travelling as an international companion, I have been fortunate enough to experience so many beautiful hotels, wonderful restaurants, fascinating cities and parts of the world I may never otherwise have discovered. The places are certainly part of the memory, and those I have shared those experiences I am so excited to meet again.
Being included in someone's plans, knowing he has thought about where we might go and imagined having me there with him, is incredibly flattering. There is an intimacy in being invited into someone's private time that I appreciate much more deeply now.
I enjoy the build up to preparing such experiences. The conversations, the ideas, choosing somewhere wonderful for dinner, deciding what we might like to experience and what we might leave completely unplanned.
I appreciate advance planning. It gives me the chance to look forward to something new.
There is a very different feeling in that, and something that I appreciate very much
The Luxury of Having Time
My idea of luxury has changed over the years.
Of course I still appreciate a beautiful hotel, an exceptional restaurant and a wonderful bottle of champagne. I love dressing for dinner, discovering somewhere new and waking up in a city far from home with absolutely nowhere we need to be.
I believe the real luxury in private companionship is time.
Enough time for dinner to run late because neither of us noticed the restaurant emptying around us. Enough time for an evening to become breakfast because saying goodnight didn't feel particularly appealing. Enough time on a weekend away to wake slowly, have coffee together and decide that whatever we had planned can wait another hour.
This is why extended companionship has always suited me.
There is room for conversation to wander, for affection to become natural and for two people to settle comfortably into each other's company without feeling that every moment needs to have a purpose. Many of my favourite memories have come from unrushed days or nights, with enough time to genuinely experience each other, rather than rushing time.
A Different Appreciation This Time
Returning to luxury companionship in Melbourne at this stage of my life feels different, although in the nicest possible way. I know myself better. I know what I enjoy, I value my independence, and I am very comfortable being selective about where I place my time and energy.
I also appreciate the men in my life differently.
Many of the gentlemen I hear from have demanding careers, businesses, families, travel and responsibilities competing for their attention. I understand that making genuine personal time isn't always easy and being given some of that time means a lot to me.
The financial investment is part of our arrangement, of course, but it isn't what makes me feel valued. Thoughtfulness does. Planning does. Respect does. Making room for me in a life that already has many demands upon it does.
I notice those things, and I appreciate them.
I also notice the man who understands that my availability is intentionally limited and plans accordingly. I love knowing that neither of us needs to rush, rearrange or squeeze the other into an already crowded day.
To Be Remembered, Desired and Valued
I think what has surprised me most is how emotional the experience has occasionally been.
I knew I would enjoy returning, but I didn't expect to feel quite so welcomed so quickly.
There are new introductions too, of course, and I find those equally exciting. New conversations have their own energy; there is curiosity, possibility and that delicious uncertainty of not yet knowing where a connection might lead.
Still, being rediscovered has touched me in a way I hadn't anticipated.
To be remembered after all these years is incredibly flattering. To have my time appreciated and respected, and to know that someone genuinely wants to invest a piece of their life, sharing their time with me, is such a compliment.
It feels more like I am waking up from a sleeping beauty slumber, yet with a much deeper appreciation for the people I have the pleasure of sharing it with. I didn't realise how much I missed my life as Rene, until I returned to it.
Seeing familiar names appear on my phone, hearing that someone had wondered where I went, being told that I had my presence was missed, and now beginning to make plans with people whose paths crossed mine years ago has been incredibly special.
Perhaps We Have Somewhere to Be
If you've been thinking about finding your way back to me, I would love to hear from you. If we haven't met before, perhaps the opportunity is now.
If you aren't travelling to me, you can find where I will be travelling next on my Tours page.
Let me know if you have somewhere else entirely in mind.
My Fly Me to You invitations are open worldwide, so if there is a city, a weekend or a beautiful corner of the world where you would enjoy having me beside you, contact me and let's see what we can plan.
I do appreciate the pleasure of planning ahead.
It gives us both something rather lovely to look forward to.
Affectionately yours,
Rene x
